Today marks another first day of school for my children. Ryan, 13, is beginning 7th grade, and my youngest, Abby, a fifth-grader.
We have had the same routine every year: pictures on the front porch, breakfast together, and mom crying after they are dropped off (yes, even after all this time-it still gets me!)
The tears are a blend of emotion and excitement, anticipation and hope, for what the year will be like. As they get older I am seeing the dreaded change that I talk to parents and educators about; school is becoming a place where they "have-to"go rather than "get-to" go.
As I look back at this first day in years past, I remember their excitement and anticipation. I still find myself asking the question-What happens?
Unfortunately, I know exactly what happens. School becomes just that: a "have-to" not a "get-to".
Students "have-to" read, "have-to" complete assignments, "have-to" listen, "have-to" sit, raise their hands,etc...
Please do not mistake what I am saying, in life there are definitely "have-to's", but in my life, the "get-to's" far out weigh.
Here’s my hope, my wonder: Do "our" kids "Get-To":
- Ask Questions- not only content but one another
- Collaborate-with one another, other classrooms, and other worlds that exist outside of their classroom walls
- Create-not with cotton balls and pipe cleaners, but with their minds. Is their imagination ignited, will their curiosity be peaked, will creativity be a valued ingredient in their classroom?
- Talk-about issues that matter most, about big ideas, and things that can change the world
- Feel Proud-real pride comes with ownership. Who "owns" their classroom? Who owns the learning?
- Think-not just memorize and regurgitate, but really think! Do they "get-to" grapple, struggle, and experience the breakthrough that often follows?
- Share-their opinions, their thoughts, their wonders, and most importantly share their hearts.
As a parent sending their best, I hope for their best. I believe that school can be a "get-to" while still accomplishing the "have-to".
Imagine with me the day all students walk through the classroom doors on the first day saying:
"I am soooo lucky-I "get-to" do this everyday!"
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