The YOU MATTER Manifesto

My friend and mentor Seth Godin says, “only reason to give a speech is to change the world”, so that is the context and the inspiration I share this message and manifesto with you:

2 Words Changing The World

These two words can change your mood, change your mind, and have the power to change lives and the world world if we understand and leverage them in the right way”

Angela Maiers TED Talk June 2011

YOU MATTER.  

I am not telling you something that you don’t already know – Mattering Matters.

In fact, I’m sure you will agree that it is of the utmost importance to tell our families, our customers, clients, and community – they matter.

But who tells you?

Before we can convince anyone else that we matter we must first convince ourselves.  This is not a desperate attempt to justify our existence nor glorify our importance. Knowing we matter is key to our existence as important to our survival as air, food, and water.

Consider this Manifesto an acknowledgement of your significance and an official reminder that ….

1. YOU ARE ENOUGH

Do you even realize how much difference you can make? You don’t have to be rich or famous; there is not age limit or specific skill set to acquire. Your presence- your essence- your passion is enough.

You already have what it takes to make the world a better place. Making a difference to the world may seem like an enormous task, but it is in fact the collective effort of everyone to make small contributions with a lot of heart. You are just what the world is waiting for.

2.  YOU HAVE INFLUENCE

Knowing you can make a difference in the world is sometimes scary to accept. To realize you can literally alter the path of the world is a bit overwhelming. Yet it’s important to accept the influence you own.

Whether you accept it or not, you’re changing the course of humanity. The degree to which you do so it entirely up to you.

3. YOU ARE A GENIUS

Seth Godin defines genius as the act of solving a problem in a way no one has solved it before. It has nothing to do with winning a Nobel prize in physics or certain levels of schooling. It’s about using human insight and initiative to find original solutions that matter. The question is: Have you ever done that? Read on…

4. YOU HAVE A CONTRIBUTION TO MAKE

“Nobody can do everything, but everyone can do something.” – Author Unknown

Your painting can bring a smile to someones face. Your poetry can lift someone out of a deep slump. Your passion can lead to the creation of something magnificent. The size of the contribution you make is is not what matters most. What counts is the effort.

We have a responsibility to seek ways to contribute, large and small.

5.  YOU HAVE A GIFT THAT OTHERS NEED

“Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” – Buddha

Happiness and love are the two greatest gifts you can give to the world. Too often, we’re too indulged in our own gratifications  we forget there are people in this world whom we can make a little happier and feel more loved.

These interventions, ideas, and ideals are the gifts we can give to society. And as the saying goes, “The more we give, the more we’ll receive.”

6. YOU ARE THE CHANGE

“Be the change the world need to see” Ghandi

Sometimes it is in the small encounters with others that we recognize twe matter, that our presence is important. A shared smile, an unexpected kindness, leaving each encounter with another positive.

It is in these small moments we find opportunity to make the choice to matter. In doing so, we create the relationship, we create the change. We make the world a better place.

7. YOUR ACTIONS DEFINE YOU IMPACT

“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” – Anne Frank

Action is the worlds greatest currency.If you choose to remain passive in how you live, you still have an impact. If you choose to remain quiet on issues that drive you, that too influences humanity.

There is no one best time to start to make a difference to the world. You don’t need to wait till you have the time; you don’t have to wait till you make more money; you don’t have to wait to let someone know they matter. Start with these two words, and you will will know how much that  little efforts counts today.

8. YOU MATTER!

To matter means to be of consequence, of importance (but not self-importance;) significant, relevant, worthy of note and of crucial value. To feel appreciated and valued, marginalized, abandoned or ignored.  The world may not always affirm this. Your employer may not always tell you that you – and the work you do – are valued. You friends and family without knowing it may not communicate the importance of your presence in their lives.

But that doesn’t mean that what you do and who you are doesn’t have a profound impact on the world.

It does. And you do.

In the big scheme of things – you make a difference. A big difference. The world would be a very different place – a lesser place – without you.

About this Manifesto:

The YOU MATTER Manifesto is more than just a cheerful sentiment; it is a call to action. Empower yourself and realise the importance of contributing to the world by living your genius. Work on that talent and know you are responsible to put to use the gifts that have been entrusted to you. Mattering is a process not an event.  Take your dreams and your talents seriously.

Consider and Share:

Let’s make our time together matter! This is only the beginning!

 

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  • http://twitter.com/hventura Henrique Ventura

    Awesome article ! 
    Thank you for these insights.

  • http://www.knealemann.com Kneale Mann

    I heart this. You matter. I matter. We matter. Now let’s get out there and do something about it. Oh and book that call!

  • http://www.brucesallan.com Bruce Sallan

    Teach, I am so thrilled that you will be co-hosting #DadChat on Feb 9 and we’ll be discussing this subject that you feel so passionate about. It has clearly touched a (positive) nerve with the community at large.

    I do have a question. What is the difference between You Matter and the Self-Esteem “movement”? The latter has been taken, IMHO, in a somewhat healthy direction in our schools while You Matter is clearly headed in the right direction. That may be a question I have for you on Feb. 9.

    But, we will have a GREAT opportunity to share your vision on #DadChat that evening and, for that matter, why don’t you guest on my radio show that day, as well? 

  • http://www.liveandlovework.com Chrysta Bairre

    Thank you for this awesome manifesto!

    I learned long ago that I can’t be anything for anyone if I’m nothing for myself. Only I can build myself up (and consequently tear myself down). If I want a great life (and I do!) I know I must create and nurture healthy confidence, self-care, and self-love.

    And I’m doing it- I’m living a great life every day. I don’t have everything I want, and my life is far from perfect, and I’m happy because I’m happy with who I am.

    It took a long time to get here, and I’m not going to give this up. It’s important to continue to seed, and plant, and feed, and grow. The YOU MATTER manifesto is all that!

    Chrysta

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  • http://womeninbusinessradio.com Michele Price

    The one I would like to see more focus on is “Your Actions Define Your Impact”. About to take an action to spend more time taking care of the internal me, you know the one that runs the show even when we thing that it does not lol.

    Always thought I was very attuned to the internal me and yet I am committing to take that learning process even deeper in 2012.  Imagine a world where everyone does their “personal internal work” with as much diligence as their outer jobs they give over so much value to. 

    Thanks for a great message.

  • http://twitter.com/AngelaMaiers Angela Maiers

    Thanks Michele- you emulate that tenant every Monday in #Speakchat  I am excited to take my learning deeper in 2012, and I know that surrounding myself with others who are equally and more passionate will only make it more astounding and special! 

  • http://twitter.com/AngelaMaiers Angela Maiers

    You are very very welcome Chrysta- so glad the message resonated with you! I love your spirt and can-do attitude! 2012 is definitely not the year to give u but rather the year to get going!!! 

  • http://twitter.com/AngelaMaiers Angela Maiers

    Bruce- I am so excited as well! 

    What is the difference between You Matter and the Self-Esteem “movement”?

    That is going to be a great question to ponder between now and then! Thanks for making me a better teacher and an even greater learner my friend! 

  • http://twitter.com/AngelaMaiers Angela Maiers

    I think we need to put this to music!!! Love it!! :-)

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  • http://ideagirlmedia.com/ Keri at Idea Girl Media

    Angela, I guess my answer is…

    I have a goal that every person I meet must learn at least one thing from me.  If we can all reach each other in that way, there is an exchange.  And people will know: They matter.

    #youmatter.

    ~Keri

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    This was a breathe of fresh air. Taking the time to recognize our individuality and importance can help us all to do better things.

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